Jj October 16,2: The root cause of this behavior is a desperate attempt to gain control over the uncontrollable; love. Each step is a phase, and each phase has a cycle. At this stage, you are driven by your instincts. The hot phase is designed to get you in the gate that leads to the corral, where you'll later be harnessed. These are the basic dance steps to this type of behavior.
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But of course, humans have evolved far more than other mammals, so we are now capable of having long-term relationships. That means you let go of the need to control what happens next and give him the chance to call, make plans with you, or initiate affection. You have no idea where he stands.