Start by targeting the right women. Hide your profiles, or delete them, for at least a month. Think mysterious. I want to offer some advice to any readers out there who might have these same worries. I know when I was dating online I scared a woman off with one of my responses when I could have just said nothing at all and been fine. And never have any fun. They tend to have a good "sixth sense.
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So move on. You get pretty rapid feedback -- if women aren't responding, or if they're taking a long time to write back, or if they're writing back but their responses are tepid, you know you've got some revision ahead of you. Already a subscriber?